How To Meet A Female
Guys ask me about " finding a woman " and "how to attract a woman " and equivalent things frequently .
Still honestly the best answer for all of these kind of questions is "experience."
But by now you are saying "but how do I get experience when I don't know where to go or how to meet women?"
You do it by meeting women and approaching women any way you can in large droves. It is called serial dating. And when I authored my first book "How I Got 700 Dates In One Year" it caused a little controversy.
I guess I should clarify. I am not a cheater and don't believe in cheating. That is not what serial dating is about. Serial dating is about the times you are NOT in a relationship. It is about what you do in between relationships. It is about sensibly selecting a spouse.
Now I would be the first one to agree with the fact that a person who "multiple" or "serial" dates with no aim of ever doing anything else would have at least some major "relating" issues.
However, serial and multiple dating is not only not necessarily a bad thing, if done with a purpose to learn about the opposite sex, it is a good thing. By heavy and consistent interaction with the opposite sex we can learn about both the opposite sex and about ourselves.
Do you remember what good old mom and dad use to say to you when you were a teenager?
They said: "Don't get serious with one person, you need to date and meet a lot of girls/guys."
It may seem childish, but this teenage advice is what most adults who are dating need to remember.
First of all, most adults never followed their parent's recommendation and dated lots of people. Most people seem to have a pattern of connecting with the first acceptable person who shows them some real interest.
Unfortunately, there is a big difference between "acceptable" and "ideal" and also regrettably most people normally continue this trend of connecting with the first "acceptable" person who comes along well into maturity.
We call this "compromising" or "settling" and in the last analysis it leads to dissatisfaction in relationships, and a failure to understand the opposite sex.
Most of us didn't realize when we were teenagers that there are all sorts of people in the world - different personalities, different likes and dislikes. We didn't realize that if we met enough people we actually could meet someone who was exactly right for us.
Most of us didn't even have an understanding of our own character and what what would be a good match for us. We founded our ideas of what a good match was off of television and movies and magazines. You see most of us just lacked experience with the opposite sex.
But the cure for all of this is not very complex. You see, when you meet and date a lot of different people a natural learning process emerges. It is called experience. No matter how dumb you are, you figure it out sooner or later. Some people sooner. Some people later. You can learn about anything this way, and there is no better teacher.
And believe it or not, that is all us "dating gurus" have ever done to meet women and attract women . We have just gone out and got a lot of experience.
Perfect First Dates That Do Not Cost The Earth And Yet Do Let You To Breathe Easy A Little At The Very Least
Most of us impose tremendous stress on ourselves when it comes to first dates, for no real reason - well actually there is a reason, we have a fear of rejection. We want to have perfect first dates.
Things Which Ought To Be Considered While Choosing The Right Singles Online Dating Websites
With the explosion of singles online dating sites has come a virtual smorgasbord of choices. There are free online dating sites, I don't recommend those but if money is a real concern, they are better than nothing.
Get Back Your Ex Just By Being Less Available And Even More Of A Challenge To Her
One of the most educational things you can ever do is to talk with your ex-girlfriend's closest friends to see what she was like in the earliest days of your relationship. Almost always her friends will tell you that almost all she could think about was how to make you hers.
Learn How To Get Back With Your Ex Lover - Even When It Seems Impossible
Are you wondering how to get back with your ex partner? There are many steps you can take with the most important one being to ask yourself are you sure this is what you want.
Blind Date Compared To Internet Date - Which Method Is Helpful
Your friend has decided that you need help with your social life so she sets you up with a blind date - a friend of a friend of a friend.
Ways To Fascinate Females - Unclear Indications And Flirting
How to successfully handle a woman who is sending confusing flirtations - and how to spot a woman who is flirting just for fun.
Tips On How To Approach Any Girl, Always Easily.
What to do to get the conversation going when there is seemingly nothing to talk about. How to spark conversation with ANY girl in a very simple and effective manner.
Getting Over Fears: Lowering The Gradient As A Way To Meet Up With Girls And Connect With Women
When you feel uncomfortable and fearful just try to think of a lower gradient that isn't as scary and allows you to make forward progress toward your goal.
The Truth About Neil Strauss As Well As What You May Need To Learn About The Game
Neil may be the most famous of all of these Dating Advice Guru's and his historical New York Times best seller "The Game" certainly was no scam. However, I tested his ideas and they are out of date.
The Reality About Mystery Plus The Mystery Method
If you simply want to be a pick up artist, then Mystery' system will work, although you will probably find that Mr. L. Rx's system works for PUA's even better and that you might end up with the kind of a woman you want if you go with Mr. L. Rx's system.
Exactly What Are The Chances Of Meeting Mr. Right On The Internet?
The odds of finding your "soul-mate" online are a lot better than you may think. It doesn't happen for everyone, of course, but it can happen for you. The world of internet or online dating has exploded over the last few years.