How To Meet A Female
You know, guys ask me about " finding a girlfriend " and "how to become a PUA " and other such things frequently .
But honestly the best answer for all of these type of questions is "experience."
But by now you are saying "but how do I get experience when I don't know where to go or how to attract women?"
You do it by meeting women and approaching women any way you can in large droves. It is called serial dating. And when I authored my first e-book "How I Got 700 Dates In One Year" it caused a little controversy.
Most importantly, let me explain that I am very big on monogamy and have never cheated on a wife or girlfriend, but when I am between meaningful relationships I am equally big on multiple or serial dating.
Now I would be the first one to affirm that a person who "multiple" or "serial" dates with no intention of ever doing anything else would have at least some major "relating" issues.
However, serial and multiple dating is not only not necessarily a bad thing, if done with a purpose to learn about the opposite sex, it is a good thing. By heavy and routine interaction with the opposite sex we can learn about both the opposite sex and about ourselves.
What do you think most parents told their teenage sons and daughters?
They said: "Don't get serious with one person, you need to date and meet a lot of girls/guys."
Now believe it or not, this teenage advice can also be very good advice for adults.
First of all, most adults never followed their parent's advice and dated lots of people. Most people seem to have a pattern of hooking up with the first acceptable person who shows them some real interest.
Regrettably, there is a difference between "acceptable" and "ideal" and also unfortunately most people usually continue this trend of connecting with the first "acceptable" person who comes along well into maturity.
We call this "settling".
We call this "compromising".
We call this all sorts of names years later when we realize we aren't happy.
Most of us didn't realize when we were teenagers that there are all sorts of people in the world - different personalities, different likes and dislikes. We didn't realize that if we met enough people we actually could meet someone who was exactly right for us.
Most of us didn't even have an understanding of our own character and what what would be a good match for us. We based our ideas of what a good match was off of television and movies and magazines. You see most of us just lacked experience with the opposite sex.
But the cure for all of this is not very complex. You see, when you meet and date a lot of different people a natural learning process emerges. It is called experience. No matter how dumb you are, you figure it out sooner or later. Some people sooner. Some people later. You can learn about anything this way, and there is no better teacher.
And lo and behold, that is all us "dating gurus" have ever successfully done to meet women and attract women . We have just gone out and about and got a lot of experience.