Get Back Your Ex Just By Being Less Available And Even More Of A Challenge To Her
You used to be a challenge for her. You had a very high value and she had been irresistibly attracted to you. Now she's gone and you are saying: "I want my ex back!"
I'm going to make a wild guess here, however can it be that as time went on, you grew to become less and less of a challenge for her? And is it that currently, you're absolutely no challenge for her? Not to mention that she knows if she wanted to, at any moment she could get you back again and wrapped around her little finger simply by saying the word?
I am going to be a bit crude here, however as you know, to become a challenge once again you need to show to your ex lover that her sexuality does not have any influence over you any longer. Take into account what it's like when you are stalking her with not returned telephone calls, voice mails, text messages, and emails. After which think about what it is like when you continue doing it (as quite a few guys do) even after she's told you to stop. You're suggesting to the woman that you're a low-value guy with no other alternatives.
Your sweetheart will not respect you again until you reject her lovemaking dominance over you. Fortunately you are doing that now by not directly interacting with her. The last thing she needs to hear from you now is how much "I want my ex back", so stay away from her.
Be sure you stay 100% rigid with your communication cut-off. You should not be "buddies" with her, as that rewards her with the continuing consent of power over you while giving her a comfortable justification to stay separated. (She reasons that she's letting you down easy doing this, assuaging virtually any remorse she may experience.)
On the other hand, make sure to keep her locked in with the help of your stuff. Most likely quite a few your possessions are at her place, and vice versa. She could even owe you money as well. She could request a mutual friend of yours to ask you if you would like all of it back again.
The ideal response to this is definitely "No, not yet. The rationale is because her holding onto your things (and you possessing hers) is still locking the two of you in and ensuring future communication. You do NOT want to give her the psychological closure that would result from settling your accounts.
For the next three weeks, you need to fully accept -- and embrace -- the idea that you're an independent man now. Take what occurred with your ex-girlfriend and learn from it. You've got a fantastic chance to revolutionize your life which will finally allow you to get your exgirlfriend back.